A gift is meant to give, not to get

It's our fault for expecting someone to give back our favor, it's a one-way gift--give for not to get!

it's love, or just relationship that bonds...

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Who would aware of what different between real love and good relationship? Maybe no one!

One of my friends experience it himself. Well, what drew us talking into this topic is the movie name, "The crazy little thing call 'love'," in 2010. It made me realize what I've found is that it, and it made him realize what he had lost is that it!

Let's start with his. He broke up with his girlfriend, who is friend of us, long around 10 years ago. As far as I knew, she was never clear why he left her. They both started their own new relationships, and time passed by. At the day he was talking with me, on his vacation in Brazil, he was currently single. He confessed that his latest broke up came from his feeling of 'real love or just good relationship?' Then, soon after he watched this movie that I referred above, it was immediately clear in his mind. The one who he love is the friend of us! And he warned me to be clear of my own feeling, don't be struggling in any bonding and trick our mind that is love. Maybe it just relationship, a good one but not deep enough to completely call it love...that's touched my heart.

Let's continued with mine.---to be continued ;)

We'll never get enough...it'll always be one more thing!

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As you could have probably see, whenever you hope so bad to get a 'thing' and put every effort to reach it, you might have thought 'please, just this and I'll be enough, need nothing else.' But apparently you got it or you just gave up on it, you'll soon find a new goal, and then, everything start itself over again.

It's a promise, not a contact.

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Words and trust are the promises process between 2 persons, but documents will bond them together as a contact. Willingness is a promise, not a contact, it might soon to be something like a wind which is we feel it's there but can't touch it, doesn't exist the moment later but used to be here.

We make a choice everyday, don't we?

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How is our life going? It'll be going in the way we chose, won't it? The result itself is unexpected, but if we choose to do different thing, it won't turn out the same, won't it?

suitable or sooth-able

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Sometimes people choose who to be their spouse based on suitable, either financial, educational, or else, it made people go for the better one between two, or maybe more than that. But people's life is sometime more complicated, that's why the others might choose to love without these kind of options, they choose the one who sooth-able. It depends on how they value things in their life, what thing is more important to them.

My (used to be) friend's story is the good example for this point.

Try not to love, try love to not

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Try not to love the one we love is hard, but try to love the one who not is harder.