It's a promise, not a contact.

undone

Words and trust are the promises process between 2 persons, but documents will bond them together as a contact. Willingness is a promise, not a contact, it might soon to be something like a wind which is we feel it's there but can't touch it, doesn't exist the moment later but used to be here.

We make a choice everyday, don't we?

undone

How is our life going? It'll be going in the way we chose, won't it? The result itself is unexpected, but if we choose to do different thing, it won't turn out the same, won't it?

suitable or sooth-able

undone

Sometimes people choose who to be their spouse based on suitable, either financial, educational, or else, it made people go for the better one between two, or maybe more than that. But people's life is sometime more complicated, that's why the others might choose to love without these kind of options, they choose the one who sooth-able. It depends on how they value things in their life, what thing is more important to them.

My (used to be) friend's story is the good example for this point.

Try not to love, try love to not

undone

Try not to love the one we love is hard, but try to love the one who not is harder.

Not without love, but love in the better way :)

undone

Love itself is good, ...

Learn how to wait

undone

More patient the better. Everything has timing itself. Whether we want it fast, we want it most or not, it will be happening at its timing--for the best. We have to learn how to wait for the best result, no rush, no give up. As we work it our best, it won't be turn out bad. Everything happens for the best, at its time. :)