Understanding does not need for every story. Left it the way it is probably the optimistic choices in many occasions.
As some psychologists might said, sometime people are out of character without any good reasons, even themselves wonder how it could happen. It probably some complicate function of our mind make such things, irregular you, happen. Why don't just leave it that way? Maybe try to understand those things cause stress, confuse yourself, or even against yourself. That doesn't seem worth time spending on it, at all.
Let take a look on some example. First, you are still be good friend with your ex after broke up. Both of you still care and nice to each other which sometime make you feel something else, especially if you still have no one while your ex might do the opposite. It doesn't necessary that your ex still have feeling for you the same way of you, or the same way like before. It may as well as it might not, equally. Most of the time, you don't need to make it clears or try to understand it. Leaving it that way supposes to be the optimist action, I guess. If it means to be about get back together, just give it time. Making up just like deeper broken up if you misinterpret the source that cause your actions! Second, you and your friend were long be good friend and alway have each other back. Someday you find out that you both go to different directions and no longer good companion as before because you don't understand why each of you act and think that of different ways. Again, you don't need to completely understand all that happens and still be good friend. Compromising is the way while you don't need to fully supportive, you don't need to strongly against as well; meet each other half way--in the middle. If you can't accept people the way they are, maybe its time to be no longer good friend but you can still leave without ruining it all--you're now just friend, still can be.
Like the topic post, many times you don't need to understand everything. Let go with it, let your logic take a rest because not everything need to name right or wrong, it can be in between. ;) carry less, happy more.
As some psychologists might said, sometime people are out of character without any good reasons, even themselves wonder how it could happen. It probably some complicate function of our mind make such things, irregular you, happen. Why don't just leave it that way? Maybe try to understand those things cause stress, confuse yourself, or even against yourself. That doesn't seem worth time spending on it, at all.
Let take a look on some example. First, you are still be good friend with your ex after broke up. Both of you still care and nice to each other which sometime make you feel something else, especially if you still have no one while your ex might do the opposite. It doesn't necessary that your ex still have feeling for you the same way of you, or the same way like before. It may as well as it might not, equally. Most of the time, you don't need to make it clears or try to understand it. Leaving it that way supposes to be the optimist action, I guess. If it means to be about get back together, just give it time. Making up just like deeper broken up if you misinterpret the source that cause your actions! Second, you and your friend were long be good friend and alway have each other back. Someday you find out that you both go to different directions and no longer good companion as before because you don't understand why each of you act and think that of different ways. Again, you don't need to completely understand all that happens and still be good friend. Compromising is the way while you don't need to fully supportive, you don't need to strongly against as well; meet each other half way--in the middle. If you can't accept people the way they are, maybe its time to be no longer good friend but you can still leave without ruining it all--you're now just friend, still can be.
Like the topic post, many times you don't need to understand everything. Let go with it, let your logic take a rest because not everything need to name right or wrong, it can be in between. ;) carry less, happy more.
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